A few weeks ago I shared with you a public service announcement about bathroom cell phone talkers. It felt so good just to get it all out in the open and the response was really solid. It was 2 weeks ago today that I announced Part 2 of the PSA, but I wanted to allow my feelings to settle a little before I shared. Now 2 weeks later I think I'm emotionally ready.
It was 2 weeks ago today that I took my family out to Belmar for dinner and to play some golf. (Family golf is a whole different posting!) Belmar has incredible food so Robin thought it would be fun to eat at the clubhouse before hitting the course. So that we did.
As we sat in the clubhouse, enjoying our time as a family, I began to take notice of a party of 5 a few feet away from us. They seemed to be a nice enough group. They were enjoying their time together, as we were, and doing some family bonding.
I noticed over a period of 30 minutes how a mid - 20's year old began to drink beer after beer. Not a problem. That is his choice and I don't need to judge, just don't begin to affect my evening. Allow me to sit at my table and bond with my family, while you sit at your table and bond with your family (and beer.) No big deal.
But then it began to happen and I thought, "This isn't right!" What happened? The more he drank the louder he would talk! Take a sip, talk louder. I don't understand, but I don't drink. Over 30 minutes this dude was talking loud enough for the people in the houses to hear! I know more about that guy's life than I do my own!
So here is the PSA: If your going to drink (which I don't endorse) have a designated driver and a designated duct taper. Have the person in your life that will help you by shutting you up! It will change your life!